The following is a simplified, linear model of what I do. It is intended to build on my original Outer Game guide which is based on compliance and arousal. 1. Find or create an opportunity to get physically close. 2. Get physically close. 3. Find or create an opportunity to establish meaningful kino (holding hands, for example). 4. Hold her hands! Interlock fingers and play with her fingers … [Read more...]
March 10, 2013 2 Comments
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Chief’s Outer Game Guide
The following is essentially the stripped-down skeleton of my Outer Game. I have designed this to be a practical guide for beginners (or intermediates who seek a simpler, more effective style of pickup) with just the bare essentials in mind. Try to follow this model without overcomplicating it with additional material at first so that nothing will get in the way of you understanding how this is … [Read more...]
February 20, 2013 Leave a Comment
6 PUA Mistakes That Kill Your Game
In addition to my blog here, I also write for a blog called The Male Insider. While I write more detailed and thoughtful content here, I write more things geared toward fundamental pickup skills over there. If you need to brush up on the basics, I highly recommend checking it out. Here's a sample of some things I write for The Male Insider! 6 PUA Mistakes That Kill Your Game As you may or may … [Read more...]
May 20, 2012 5 Comments
A Whole New World!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-kl4hJ4j48s Sometimes, this song plays in my head whenever a Korean girl who has lived within the constraints of conservative Confucianism her whole life is touched by the seductive magic of my comparatively uninhibited and wild ways of living. I feel like Aladdin taking a trapped princess on a magic carpet ride of fun that no traditional Korean man can … [Read more...]
March 20, 2012 1 Comment
Making her chase you?
Some guys like to "flip the script" by trying to make the girl chase them instead of showing direct interest. It might sound good in theory, but what's going to happen when you actually try to get together with a girl who's chasing you like mad? I'll tell you what: she's going to lose interest because she's "caught" you and you're no longer a challenge. How many times have you had a girl … [Read more...]
November 20, 2011 1 Comment
Korean Inhibitions
As some of you may already know, I've recently been hired into the Korea branch of PUA Training by the Korea-famous PUA Alexikakos, who shall later be translating this article into Korean for the Korean bootcamp students. Although I'm there to help out on the bootcamps taught in English for the foreign students, I've had the opportunity to observe and work with some Korean students as … [Read more...]
January 31, 2011 1 Comment
Managing Expectations for FWB Relationship
Managing Expectations: The process of making sure that the girl you are seducing doesn't expect more than you're willing to offer. For example, making sure that a girl doesn't expect marriage when all you're looking for is a one night stand. FWB: Friend With Benefits. The first layer of my process of managing expectations is something I've already posted in my Outer Game thread here: … [Read more...]
January 27, 2011 4 Comments
Comfort Manipulation (Online, Text, and Phone Game)
Think you got the perfect text game? Phone game? ONLINE GAME? Think again. Every interaction you have with a woman is going to further establish a comfort zone for both you and her - especially her - within the frame of the interaction you make. The more you interact with her through a certain medium of communication, the more she'll be accustomed to interacting with you through that very … [Read more...]
August 25, 2010 Leave a Comment
An Easy Guide to Clothes Shopping
This is a simple guide for men on how to shop smart when shopping for clothes. The goal of this guide is not seduction; the goal is to buy clothes that look good on you. The most important prerequisite of this guide is to have an open mind about what you might want to wear. Don't be afraid to try a new look. The next most important prerequisite is money. The more you are willing to spend, … [Read more...]
Why Women Want Rich Handsome Men
I recently wrote an article about the whole "looks don't matter" line that pickup artists keep telling themselves. Of course, looks are a factor when it comes to attraction, even if it's not as important of a factor as most people think. However, you may have noticed that women are always obsessing over rich, handsome celebrities on the magazine covers. And they're everything that you're … [Read more...]