The very concept of Buyer's Remorse is absolutely absurd. In the context of sales, a customer gets what's called "Buyer's Remorse" when they regret making a purchase after they've realized that the product they bought falls short of their expectations. In PUA terminology, a woman supposedly gets Buyer's Remorse if they regret sleeping with a guy. The very fact that a guy actually put the … [Read more...]
August 20, 2010 3 Comments
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October 21, 2009 3 Comments
Self-destruction is the magic bullet
Not all of the things that are taught in the PUA community are useful to everyone. Ungrounded affirmations, for example, do more harm than good for most. Are you doing mental gymnastics in order to avoid the realization that you are going nowhere in order to avoid some sort of pain? You might not be making your life any better right now. You know why? You like making yourself comfortable. … [Read more...]
August 4, 2009 4 Comments
Be Wanty, Not Needy
There's a big difference between being needy and expressing genuine, ego-less desire. The main difference is that being needy turns women off while expressing genuine desire free of ego turns women on. The feeling of neediness stems from a void you feel in your spectrum of emotions. This void may be the result of anything ranging from previous rejections to childhood traumas. The scars you have … [Read more...]
July 5, 2009 3 Comments
Adopting Sexy Beliefs
It's no secret that the beliefs we hold affect our lives in many different ways. It's also commonly known throughout the seduction community that having a certain set of beliefs leads to more success with women and dating. Some of these beliefs include: 1. Women love sex 2. Women are gorgeous and blameless ...well, I can make a list of useful beliefs that goes on and on for pages and pages, … [Read more...]
May 25, 2009 4 Comments
Understanding Women
There once was a young girl named Katherine. She was born into a world not too unlike ours. Her world, however, was full of twisted unjust rules that didn’t make sense. You see, when people in this world are hungry, they are reminded that it is wrong to eat. Higher authorities that have watched over Katherine throughout her entire life have given her the opportunity to have many blessings: … [Read more...]
April 12, 2009 1 Comment
What an artist does
"Chief, are you alright?" Carin, my favorite bartender, could see the sorrow permeating from the genuine expression on my face; the very sorrow I was trying to drown in Pabst Blue Ribbon beer. It was another Friday night at The Dungeon, my favorite bar. Her eyes showed concern like an old friend. I just give her a fake smile and a thumbs up. I wasn't going to give a woman my burdens like I used … [Read more...]
February 27, 2009 7 Comments
Sexual Attraction Explained In-depth
The way that most PUAs think of attraction nowadays is ineffective. Since the concept of attraction is inherently subjective, I'm not saying that the way most PUAs think of attraction is wrong; it just makes the process of seduction unnecessarily difficult. More often than not, they structure their beliefs about attraction in a way that makes seduction an uphill battle rather than a thrilling free … [Read more...]
February 20, 2009 2 Comments
Do you want to get rid of Approach Anxiety?
I want you to sit down and imagine this following scenario. Go inside your head right now and imagine this happening with as many vivid details as possible. Read this slowly and deliberately, soaking in as much of it as you can. You are in line to ride a roller coaster for the first time ever, but you feel absolutely no fear. In fact, you feel nothing at all. You feel like you might as well be … [Read more...]
February 12, 2009 2 Comments
Managing expectations
A friend and fellow student of the pickup arts asked me a question in confidence today. He showed me a rather long email that he received from his ex-girlfriend. It detailed how obsessed she was with him, and how she can't get him off her mind. He no longer wishes to be her boyfriend, but she's hooked because he abused his PUA power by creating nearly unbreakable connections just so that he … [Read more...]
The Shameless Casanova
During a conversation with one of my chick friends, she told me something that I found to be very telling about how many women probably feel these days: "Sigh. Sadly, even when I TRY to have one night stands or sex just for sex, men get hardcore attached and want to claim me as only theirs. It's annoying. What happened to the promiscuous, non-committing man?" A lot of men nowadays have the … [Read more...]