A friend and fellow student of the pickup arts asked me a question in confidence today. He showed me a rather long email that he received from his ex-girlfriend. It detailed how obsessed she was with him, and how she can't get him off her mind. He no longer wishes to be her boyfriend, but she's hooked because he abused his PUA power by creating nearly unbreakable connections just so that he … [Read more...]
February 12, 2009 2 Comments
February 1, 2009 Leave a Comment
Trust by default
The other night I was at my favorite bar, The Dungeon. There was a new bartender working there. She was pretty cute and had sexy hair that looked wet even though it wasn't. I was there with HBNoCrawfish (from my latest LR on all the various PUA forums I post in), and I was talking to her about how I've been trying to develop a pickup strategy that involves telling girls that I'm a virgin (it's … [Read more...]
December 26, 2008 2 Comments
Fat Chicks and Beta Males
Imagine a fat chick going on a healthy diet and exercising regularly as she loses weight to become more attractive to the opposite sex. Everyone she knows compliments her all the time for her valiant effort. Once she actually gets hot, she gets way more attention from men and people shower her with more attention and praise. Now imagine a beta male AFC learning self improvement and pickup as he … [Read more...]
December 7, 2008 Leave a Comment
Some good stuff!
This past Friday and Saturday was my first workshop right here in New Orleans! It sure was a blast and the people seemed to have learned a lot. I guess I better start advertising very soon for the NorCal workshop that's coming up on January 2nd and 3rd. I wasn't able to take the boys out in-field on the second day after the Outer Game presentation because I had to attend my Fraternity's … [Read more...]
November 26, 2008 Leave a Comment
Forgiveness
This is a follow-up to "Obsession": http://chiefpua.com/?p=52 A couple days ago I came to grips with the fact that I cannot judge Spin. He's done some terrible things to me, but I still have no right to judge him. Who am I to say that he's a bad guy? I am just as human as he is. It just seems like he's got a sex addiction, and many of his friends would agree. From another perspective he could … [Read more...]
November 18, 2008 1 Comment
A Matter of Taste
I won't ever be able to sarge and successfully pick up any given woman I set my eyes on. That's impossible. I once held a belief that if you're adaptable enough with your game such a feat would be possible, but that's bullshit. As I've learned from various pickup sources, learning game isn't about adding on additional layers to yourself. Instead, it's about peeling away the layers that stifle … [Read more...]
August 24, 2008 2 Comments
It all starts with you.
Here's some heavy stuff. When I was in middle school, I was depressed. It was pretty bad. I thought nobody in the world could ever really care about me. In turn, I didn't give a damn about anyone, myself, the world, whatever. I saw life through a narrow pessimistic scope. I saw myself as worthless, useless, and also as a victim. I had no faith in humanity or its potential to love. I remember … [Read more...]
August 7, 2008 Leave a Comment
Passion for pickup
I've got some exciting news! Brad sold pick-up-artist-forum.com to Richard La Ruina, aka Gambler, of PUA Training. We've got a lot of new things planned for the future of PUAF with the new leadership. Mr. La Ruina has also made me a Site Administrator, and I've already set a lot of things in motion to make the forum better and higher-quality. I also recorded an interview I did with a natural … [Read more...]
July 30, 2008 Leave a Comment
You can run but you can’t hide
...and running won't even do you any good. It'll only exhaust you. I'm currently experiencing some domestic turbulence within my own household right now, and it's reminding me of a very important life lesson. Try as you might, but you can't fucking hide shit from the world, especially not from the people that are actually involved in your life. Go ahead and try. Go ahead and go out in-field … [Read more...]
July 13, 2008 4 Comments
A meditation on struggle
I've been thinking about something earlier today, and I just read something that Beschatten wrote in response to a question that somebody asked that got me thinking even more. "People lose sleep over a death, not a girl. Get a grip." -Beschatten Several years ago, when I was in middle school, I went through a completely negative and hateful goth phase. I wore all black, I hated the world, I … [Read more...]