Ask Chief: Sexual Framing

Ask Chief: Sexual Framing

Every now and then I get a really good question from a user on and I try to answer them to the best of my ability. I’d like to start sharing these questions and answers with you here! Here’s a question about sexual framing. “Jimbob30” asks:

So basically, I open direct. Day game BTW. Something along the lines of “Hey how you doin. Wow, you have some beautiful eyes! They’re not contacts are they?”

What do I say after that to frame the convo sexually? I know I can throw in the Strawberry fields & misinterpretation further into the convo, but what do I say before then?

The creative possibilities are endless.

When I was trying to get used to sexual framing back in the day, someone gave me some valuable advice: put your mind in the gutter.

I don’t know where you’re from but “Get your mind out of the gutter” is a common American saying that means “stop thinking like a sexual animal.”

If you start trying to think of everything in a perverted way, you’ll eventually get very skilled at putting a sexual spin on everything that cums your way, which is essentially sexual framing.

Like most guys, you’re probably not used to doing this. Society conditions us to associate shame with our sexual thoughts. As a result, most guys suppress these thoughts; no one wants to be the bad guy! The way I see it, though, shame is the bigger sin here.

So, what words should you say? Once you get used to thinking sexually, you’ll master sexual framing. Memorizing lines is not the answer. It misses the point of the art entirely. Penis.

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