Focus Your Confidence

Focus Your Confidence

As a newbie learning the pickup arts, you learned that confidence is attractive, so you decided to act more confidently when you're interacting with women. What are you confident about, though? Where should the focus of your confidence be? Is your focus on being confident in how good you look? Is your focus on being confident in your ability to attract women? Is your focus on being confident … [Read more...]

2 Rules You Must Follow When Complimenting Women

2 Rules You Must Follow When Complimenting Women

A lot of needy chumps put beautiful women up on top of a high pedestal and give them way too many compliments, showing their neediness and lack of balls. Many pickup artists observe this sort of beta-male behavior and say, "Don't give compliments to a woman!" Well, realistically, most PUAs say that men should give compliments sparingly, or they should just not give women compliments that have … [Read more...]

The Burden of Leadership

The Burden of Leadership

Let me tell you about one of the biggest mistakes a lot of guys make when they're interacting with women. This one thing annoys the fuck out of women. If a guy does this to a girl, it makes her feel like he's sucking blood straight from her veins to keep himself alive. It then becomes impossible for her to feel attraction for him. I once asked an AFC to visualize himself walking up to a … [Read more...]

There’s something big coming…

There’s something big coming…

At the end of my last blog update, I mentioned that I'll have some exciting news for you today. Well, it seems like I'm going to have that exciting news for you on the 10th instead of today. Sorry! But something big is coming... If you're subscribed to my email list, you might be able to guess what it will be based on the most recent "special" emails I send out... but be patient. … [Read more...]

How to Become Popular

How to Become Popular

The key to becoming popular is to give people what they want. But wait, there's more! Did you really think that I'd be done in just one sentence? After all, you can't just survey all of the people you want to be friends with by asking them, "What do you want?" Most people don't even know what they want. That's because most people aren't popular. You see, a popular person knows … [Read more...]

The Movie Date

The Movie Date

Ah, the classic "movie date," the most infamous and hated type of Day 2 in the community. Seeing a movie in a theater is often referred to by PUAs as the worst date idea ever. OK, we all know why a movie date can be a terrible idea, so I'm not going to get into that. However, we also know that rules can be broken. I went to high school in a boring city where a lot of old and rich people … [Read more...]

How to Know When “It’s On”

How to Know When “It’s On”

Imagine for a moment that you're talking to a very attractive girl. She's exactly your type, and at that moment you feel like she's the sexiest woman you've ever talked to. The way she moves makes you melt. The way she bites her lip drives you wild. The way she looks at you makes your slacks a little tight. There is absolutely no doubt in your mind that you want her. If you're subscribed … [Read more...]

Pay It Forward: The Ultimate PUA Movie?

Pay It Forward: The Ultimate PUA Movie?

If you haven't seen the movie Pay It Forward (2003) with Haley Joel Osment, Helen Hunt, and Kevin Spacey, see it. It actually brought tears to my eyes. If you haven't seen it you absolutely must. Alright, let's start small and break this movie down in accordance to its relevancy to pickup on a micro level. First of all, the character of Mr. Simonet, played by Kevin Spacey, provides some good … [Read more...]

Make Women Approach You With Your Electric Gaze

Make Women Approach You With Your Electric Gaze

Do you know how to make eye contact in a way that makes both you and the woman feel electrified? I just got this email from Dave from England, who's been receiving my free PUA Starter Course after signing up with his email (you should do that, too, if you haven't already!): Hi Chief, I am Dave from Stoke, England! I have been having a go at your missions & they have been really helpful. … [Read more...]

Microcalibration (Part 2)

Microcalibration (Part 2)

In Part 1 of "Microcalibration," I talked about how we need to be mindful of the fact that Microcalibration is meant to be used to control the level of our perceived social value so that it's neither too low nor too high. In this second part I want to get into more detail on how exactly you can microcalibrate an interaction. I must warn you, however, that these concepts are kind of advanced, … [Read more...]