Be Wanty, Not Needy

Be Wanty, Not Needy

There’s a big difference between being needy and expressing genuine, ego-less desire. The main difference is that being needy turns women off while expressing genuine desire free of ego turns women on.

The feeling of neediness stems from a void you feel in your spectrum of emotions. This void may be the result of anything ranging from previous rejections to childhood traumas. The scars you have from past experiences prompt your psyche into creating an EGO (in the Eckhart Tolle sense of the word, not Freud) in order to maintain a semblance of sanity. This ego, however, makes you NEEDY, which really sucks ass.

On the flip side, expressing genuine desire from an ego-less standpoint is much like expressing your liking for a certain flavor of ice cream simply because you like it. You don’t feel any need to taste the ice cream in order to fill some sort of void within your hurting heart or any gay shit like that; you just want the ice cream because you fucking like it.

Stop looking for women to fill that hole in your heart. Women are ice cream cones. Don’t be needy, but be as wanty as much as you can because women get turned on when they know that they are desired.


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  1. Would you be interested in doing a product review?

    Drawk Kwast | Alpha Male Lifestyle Design

    Drawk Kwast is a life coach who has been recognized by Forbes, Entrepreneur, The Washington Times, USA Today, Details Magazine, and Worth Magazine for his ability to transform his clients’ desires into reality. His methods have been called unconventional, and he makes no apologies as he tells you how to dominate the competition at work, attract the most desirable women on the planet, and ultimately achieve a fulfilling life.

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  2. Drawk,

    Depends. Do you have original content or is most of your material rehashed from other seduction gurus like most of the stuff out there?


  3. Different enough that I do not consider myself part of the “seduction community” – I would like to think very different. Shoot me an email at the below address with your blog URL (so I know who it is) and I will reply back with some of my PDFs attached. You can also look at my website for more info on what I teach and how I do it.

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  4. Good Stuff,
    Since 3 weeks I have shift my mindset to be “wanty” rather than “entertening”. I go for it. I go after the woman I like and I communicate my desire for them. Really changed my lifestyle.

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