Self-destruction is the magic bullet

Self-destruction is the magic bullet

Not all of the things that are taught in the PUA community are useful to everyone. Ungrounded affirmations, for example, do more harm than good for most. Are you doing mental gymnastics in order to avoid the realization that you are going nowhere in order to avoid some sort of pain? You might not be making your life any better right now. You know why? You like making yourself comfortable. … [Read more...]